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How to Find Meaningful Work

How good is the work you’re producing now?

Would you be willing to sell it to your closest friends? If the answer is no, why do you feel okay about selling it to other people? Do you think they won’t be able to notice what your friends would?

All things being equal, people want to do business with their friends. If your work isn’t up to the quality level you feel comfortable sharing with friends, it’s not going to bring you success.

Why’s that?

Your friends cut through your own delusions. You can lie to yourself, and pretend what you’ve created is great, but when it comes down to it, you can’t fool your friends with what you produce. They are an honest reflection of yourself. If you’d feel awkward sharing what you’ve done today with your friends, you’re probably not producing the quality level you know you’re capable of.

For Buddhists, an integral part of the Eightfold path is Right Work, or Right Livelihood. Right work is optimal work, work that doesn’t hurt or harm any living thing. Work that brings happiness to both the worker and the people who recieve the work.

Is your work Right Work? And what sort of a job nowadays would really fit as Right Work?

It’s a process of discovery. Each person is born with unique talents and gifts, and under a different set of circumstances. It’s our job as humans to figure out what those gifts are, to build upon them, and then find a way to share them with the rest of the world. Once we’ve done so, the whole world falls into alignment, and the process of becoming successful becomes effortless.

You’re only doing what you would do for free.

And that’s a huge leap in your thought process. When you’re producing out of love of the process, you’re producing in a genuine way. It’s not a rushed job, and it’s not “just to pay the bills”. People notice when you put your heart into your work. Everyone appreciates someone who excels at what they do, regardless of what it is. Just watch a professional athlete who loves their sport, and you’ll see why.

So why waste your time on this earth in mediocrity. Why settle?

If you know what your talents are already, what are you doing to develop them further? Humanity benefits most when everyone develops to their true potential and finds happiness within their work.

If you haven’t discovered them, give yourself the time to discover them. Taking a long trip to a foreign country is a great start. It’ll make you realize just how ingrained and relative your social values are. Then you’ll think about what you really want. And that’s the start of everything.

Be Here Now

On December 28 2006, I read Ram Dass’ book, Be Here Now.

I had heard of Ram Dass from a whole lot of people, and picked up snippets of his philosophy, the main one being the title of his book - BE HERE NOW. It left me a little skeptical, mostly because of how many people worship his writings. If there’s one thing I’ve noticed, it’s that spiritual leaders with blind followers suck.

But I gave the book a chance anyways, figuring there’s something worthwhile in everything popular, it’s just a matter of cutting through the BS to get to it. So I began by reading the first few pages to get an idea of Ram Dass’ point in the book.

It turns out, he was a very successful (by stereotypical American standards) phsychiatrist working at Harvard before he took an extreme spiritual path. He owned a plane, a large house, fancy cars, the whole nine yards. He was frustrated with his life, though, and felt instinctively something wasn’t right. He had so much, yes, but he still felt empty, and all the things he had weren’t adding up to enough.

Then he met Timothy Leary and decided to take psylocibin as phychiatric research. What happened when he took psylocibin changed his life.

He realised that his life was just a game that he was playing very well. Beneath that surface game lied something deeper, more profound, and more worthwhile than just worldly pursuits. He was intrigued, and knew he was onto something. He never had such a profound undertanding so quickly.

So he got more involved with psychedelics, and eventually realized he couldn’t continue with his egotistical pursuits at Harvard. At the same time he also realized he couldn’t achieve true spiritual power while relying on a psychedelic drug to get him closer to a more profound experience. He decided to take the spiritual path of following a guru.

Now, here’s where I get upset. The whole guru thing. The idea that one person has achieved something so profound spiritually they’ve grown above it and assume they can teach better than the best experience - personal. To me, spirituality is something so important that we can’t let someone else tell us what is and what isn’t. We must experience and know for ourselves.

But he followed his guru anyway. And he came upon some profound lessons. Lessons that are found in every religion to some extent. That’s because every lasting religion was started by people experiencing the same thing under different circumstances - the eternal in the now in the eternal now.

What the hell does that mean?

Be here now. This moment we are currently present in is the only real thing we ever have. It’s never going to become something else, it’s never going to stay the same. Wherever we are, we’re interpreting our experience. If we interpret pain is unbearable, it is, if we interpret pain is fleeting, it is. Whatever we decide to interpret as real becomes real.

Be here now. Surf the moment to death. Our lives can end at any point in time. Nothing is a given, the only given is this moment we find ourselves in right now.

Experience the beauty and appreciate every breath.

Couldn’t every religion break itself down into that one sentence? At it’s most basic form, every religion is saying the same thing:

Be here now.

In other words,

Experience the beauty and appreciate every breath.

The desire for a beautiful, amazing life filled with an incredible lover and thousands of friends isn’t real. The only thing that is is the moment we are in right now. Why let this moment be spoiled by petty desires that aren’t real? Surf the current moment to the end instead, in a constant state of gratification and presence. By focusing completely on the current moment, we can experience the eternal. We can focus on truly helping. There is no attachment, there is no death, there is only what we feel what we know right now. The future holds nothing, doesn’t exist.

Does that scare you?

It should. Because it’s so profound and so simple. And because it’s provable by daily experience. When you wake up, you immediately begin interpreting your reality and deciding what to focus on. Are you focusing on the process of awakening, or are you worrying about problems in your life that haven’t affected you yet?

It’s a simple step. The most profound wisdom is always the simplest. Start now… be here now.

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